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36-40,
*evil Crazy
writes:I got to know this 21-year old girl in a forum over the internet a few months ago, and as she needed someone to offer her tuition, I agreed to teach her for free. And so, I would meet her regularly over the weekends to either give her tuition or to hang out with her.Gradually, I began to discover her personality, which is kind of a shock to me as she is very unlike most females that I know. She had a promiscuous past, was outright straightforward in her comments that borders on brutality. I started to feel uncomfortable when with her, as her personality and behavior is certainly very different from mine.She would openly talk about the details of her sex life, such as those with her boyfriend, and even one with a much older man. In addition, she had said I needed to learn some of the 'players' skill in order to get good lays (I am a virgin by the way), and how all her friends are busily bonking day-in, day-out.In addition, due to her abrasiveness, she would sometimes say rather nasty things to me. For once, when I bemoaned to her my lack of luck in love, she dropped the line without thinking: "Why brood over something that you can never have?" Seriously, that hurt me deeply. I still cannot forget this line to this day and time.On the other hand, sometimes she offered sound advices to me, but I constantly feel like my opinions are second to hers (although she didn't say so). There was once when I told her that I do use sextoys when masturbating, she fervently put down my behavior but to her, vibrators are perfectly OK as they are 'not considered to be sextoys'. She had told me that she would look out for suitable partners for me, however I am beginning to shy away from it, as I feel that her friends could be somewhat similar to her too, for birds of a feather flock together.She is rather fun to be with when I hang out with her, but those points above are what I find hard to ignore or put down. On a final note, whenever I confront her with something I felt she did that hurt my feelings, she had never been apologetic.Should I give up this friend? Honestly speaking, I feel more and more awkward when I am with her. Thanks in advance for all the responses,Devil Crazy
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reader, babiee_B  +, writes (8 June 2008):
 Well huni i think you should just talk to your friend and tell her how you are feeling. If you dont want her to find you a partner just tell her if she is a true friend she will understand you need to look for a partner you like and not one your friend likes.
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (8 June 2008):
 i think you should end this friendship as you are getting nothing out of it she hurts your feelings insults you are doesnt make your life happier she isnt a good friend and you should forget her if you have already talked to her and she knows she hurts yopur feelings yet she hasnt done anything about it she doesnt care
good luck xxxx
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reader, lushlass93 +, writes (8 June 2008):
i think you should end this friendship as you are getting nothing out of it she hurts your feelings insults you are doesnt make your life happier she isnt a good friend and you should forget her if you have already talked to her and she knows she hurts yopur feelings yet she hasnt done anything about it she doesnt care
good luck xxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (8 June 2008): Yes,you should give up this friend.Was she even your friend in the first place?Cause her actions(her words),do
not seem like it.And if she considers you a friend,she
probably doesn't and is only using you to keep her tuition.
Her actions are rude and disrespectful and to not even
offer an apology is stubborn and selfish.Just tell her you
think it's better off if you two don't see eachother any-
more,as friends,or teacher to student.
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