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shell-ellie
writes:im really confused im 15 and i have a boy friend bu we dont see each other very often.my best friend is aways with me and we aways hug each other bu she keep rubbing her nose against mine and sort of biting my lip as if she is trying to kiss me and i really dont no what to do because im just so confused because ive grew up with four boys and was a major tom boy wen i was younger please help ?
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reader, scrazy  +, writes (16 July 2008):
 Next time she tries that, pull away and ask her what she's doing. Tell her it's making you uncomfortable and you'd prefer if she didn't try to kiss you.
Obviously your friend is experimenting with her sexuality, but you should let her know that you are not gay or bi so you would prefer if she didn't try to experiment with you. However you guys can stay friends - but there must be some limits.
Hope this helps!
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reader, Emilysanswers + ♥, writes (16 July 2008):
Next time she does it just pull away and ask her what she's doing.
If you don't want to be kissed by her then let her know you don't like it.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, birdynumnums + ♥, writes (16 July 2008):
 Hun,
You have a right to your own body. It's your body, your rules. When a good friend starts biting your lips, it's like kissing. Hugs are fine between girlfriends, but that semi-kiss made you feel uncomfortable and that was crossing the friendship line. You have the right to tell her NO. I suspect that she is having some issues with which gender she is interested in. As a friend, you can hang out, but let her know that you aren't into her in that way. Just draw the line for her and tell her that you still want to be friends, but you are not gay or bi. If she is a friend, she'll get it and back off. Good Luck!
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