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13-15,
RealFunkyDudette
writes: I am 13. And I recently spilt up with my bf. After i dumped him because i thought he was a bit possesvive but we are still friends. But he still fancies me and so do other 2 other boys and my best friend is getting all jealous because of all the attention from all the boys. but i hate it and now we have fallen out. when i said i didn't want all this but she just said "yeah right" how can i make her see it's not my fault boys like me?
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reader, Skeez + ♥, writes (16 August 2007):
 Heya love.
I can understand where your friend is coming from.
Maybe shes comparing herself to much to you, becuse you seem to be getting all the attension and she isnt.
Im sure a lot of girls get fed up and dissapointed that they dont get any attention from the opposite sex as much as somebody else. Its jealousy, but It may also be making her feel very self consious about herself which is not a good thing. Put yourself in her shoes. Think how you would feel with hardly any attention from guys.
I know its not ur fault that these guys like you, but perhaps taling to your friend a lil bit more will help.
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reader, Everlasting Love  +, writes (16 August 2007):
Dudette, maybe your a big flirt or something but it appears that your friend wants attention as well hang out and do things together I'm sure this will solve it. best of luck
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reader, JessIzFit +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Heya, the same thing happened to me and my mates, but it was them who had all the attention, so don't worry your not the only one.
The thing that worked for us was sitting down and having a chat about this and maybe tell them how your feeling about this. I rekon that they are jealous so tell them that having people fancying you 24-7 isn't all great and maybe they'll see that you still want to be mates with them.
Sorry for rambling on and hope i helped
All my love
Louise
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