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My friend is happy to kiss and hug me, but he's afraid to ruin our friendship by dating...

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Question - (9 August 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2005)
A female , *oppy writes:

I have known this guy for 5yrs and in the last few months we have become good friends and socialise with the same people. I have recently admitted to our friends and to him that I fancy him, and had responses that he does like me to but doesn’t want to lose our good friendship. But whenever we are together and in our social circle he is always very affectionate towards me by hugging and kissing and there have been times at social gatherings where more has happened.

We have talked about going out a few times but he always comes up with the same excuse! I think he believes that our friendship is fine as it is as we are able to be friends without him feeling attached after he has been with me and we have kissed etc but I do and I want more than this! I Know the logical thing to do is to move on but I can’t help thinking what It would be like to go out with him, and I believe that he does to but is embarrassed in front of our group of friends. HELP!!! PLEASE!!!

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A reader, becky05 +, writes (10 August 2005):

If he doesnt want to go out with you, then theres not much you can do to change his mind.

Tell him you want him to stop kissing and hugging you as you think this is an inappropriate way for friends to behave and you only want to kiss your boyfriends.

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