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22-25,
raynbopyde637
writes:okay i had had a problem with a friend that i felt was too flirty with my girl. my girl said she told her to stop and that she would.now n the past i had really really insecurities... my girl helped me to grow out of them. but now after this problem with my friend my girl kept tellinme it was my insecure. i tried telling her numerous times hat ijust felt disrespected. an my girl has told me that she feels like my friend just likes to get a reaction out of us. and even my friend's girlfrind said she has talked to my friend about bein so flirty. so i mean if everyone can. is my girl just really mad kus she feels im being insecure and trying to choose friends for her. kus in the past like i said i was really insecre, it caused drama wit friens..but my girl has helped me grow out of it. but like i said i felt disrespected, my girl said my friend is flirty n tried to get reaction, and my friends girl to..and my friend girl talk to her..so my main question is my girl feeling alil resentful against me? i made it clear that its not aobut bein insecure, but i feel she would act disrespectfully flrt, like over the line...but everyone sees it as a problem but my girlfriend...whats up? andrea is the type of person who wll dust it off and be wateve about it. but she dont realze that its still disrespectful on my friends part...why?
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reader, rambini  +, writes (28 May 2007):
i think u shud try to tlk 2 ur gf and explain what u have said about her flirtin makin u uncomfortable. im sure she wud have sumthin 2 say if u flirted with her friends! sometimes girls genuinely dnt realise they r flirting tho as girls r often natuarally outgoin and flirtacious so it cud b a subconscious thing. i think u may also still b a little insecure, but her flirtin is by no means helping this. try to talk 2 her with actual specific examples of sumthin she did or said which made u particularly uncomfortable, as this gives u a stronger case. c if her friends will tlk 2 her, as an outsiders opinion is often seen as more valid as it is not biased. ultimately she needs to respect u but u need to ensure u r not bein paranoid. good luck
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