A
female
age
22-25,
anonymous
writes:I'm sorry if it's gonna be a long story, but I really need help and advice for this problem.To be clear, I will call my friend “A” and the boy “C”.And I will give some background for the situation first. A sit besides C now. Me and A are classmate and we are close friend.C has started texting me before they sit with each other (it was around February or March) but I didn’t reply him at that time.Somehow, he texted me in April again and I replied him (A and C has started to sit with each other). At first I thought he was cool and he flirts other girl, he also care about A when she was mad and I think that’s what makes A like him, he was quite humorous. However, after a few texts, I realize that me and C had so many things in common and we almost talked about everything. (A used to told me that C also text her a few time and she's kind of into it, but I didn't tell her C and me has texted each other everyday and it was sustainably.) Even my friends told me that A was falling in love with C but I don't know what to do, although A didn’t admit it.And A told me that C don't like me but C told me that he don't trust A so he won't talk about everything with A.The crux is C haven't court me but he asks me questions if I was that girl I will I accept his friend’s approach or not and we always shared our celebrity crush with each other and what kind of girl or guy we want etc. I'm not sure if he like me or not, but I was in a really sticky situation. 1. I’m afraid that if C really like me then what can I do?2. I know A very well, she’ll get mad at me if she know that C like me and she'll think that I'm stealing C from her.3. If C really confess me, should I reject him or tell him the truth that A like him too or pretend there is nothing happened and just say yes? But he is that kind of guy that he may tell A that I was annoyed by this and A will be pissed off.4. And if we really get together should I keep it down or tell A?I hope you can give me some advice cuz it's driving me crazy. Thank you so much!
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 Maybe you should ask C straight out if he likes either off you both instead of playing a game. It is up to him who he chooses to ask out, and up to you or A if you accept.
I think you should be honest with A and tell her if you like him, it is best to be honest with your friend or else you will risk losing her.
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reader, Denizen  +, writes (25 April 2016):
 I think it is worth considering who C likes. I think he has the casting vote. He isn't a piece of merchandise to be traded.
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