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writes:Me and a really close friend who have been talking for a while are in a sort of tiff... I have no idea what to do... I need help :(I have been told by one of my friends that I'm being a bit clingy and I should leave him a while but I'm finding it really hard!This is my last convo log with him.. it's becoming really hard not to talk to him:(he told me not to text him the night before)me # him why cudnt i text u last night ¬¬ lol him # cos im with friends and ur texts are dodgy.. him - =] # im still with them so dnt text still.. me- =] # haha what me - =] # how are they dodgy? me - =] # him 8-) me - =[ so cold. ? me - =[ so cold. ug me - =[ so cold. right... il catch u later or something me - =[ so cold. can i talk to you yet or is it still A no? me # mer him sends Pasted_Data_eaa4.txt 28/10/2008 20:25:18 You have failed to receive file "Pasted_Data_eaa4.txt" from him. 28/10/2008 20:25:19 him sends Pasted_Data_0eea.txt 28/10/2008 20:25:22 You have failed to receive file "Pasted_Data_0eea.txt" from him. 28/10/2008 20:25:25 him sends Pasted_Data_b50e.txt 28/10/2008 20:25:28 You have failed to receive file "Pasted_Data_b50e.txt" from him. 28/10/2008 20:25:32 him. ffs. ignore tht me haha me got you to talk!!!!!!!! me or not... him sends Pasted_Data_f489.txt 28/10/2008 20:27:10 You have failed to receive file "Pasted_Data_f489.txt" from him. 28/10/2008 20:27:24 me ^o) Jordan - Aaron hmmmm Jordan - Aaron ¬¬ Jordan - Aaron are u pissed at me or summet? ^o) no reply... but he is usually away its just his cctv cams that are on
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhttp://www.dearcupid.org/question/do-you-think-i-still-have-a-chance.html i think i have found someone else :)
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reader, shiraz +, writes (16 November 2008):
He was seein someone else! find yourself someone worthy who gives you love back and lets you know where you stand everyone needs that stability, your to good for someone like this! best of luck in finding him xxx -enjoy it!!-
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 November 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell the thing was. he was seeing someone else and didnt have the teste's to tell me!
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reader, Reebe +, writes (31 October 2008):
 Was he with friends that don't know that he's gay? Maybe he was worried someone would get his phone and find out?
Maybe he was just chilling out and relaxing?
Just because he couldn't text you there and then doesn't really mean anything.
Relax with him and give him space if he needs it, he'll respect you alot more for it, and it doesn't mean to say he doesn't care. Don't worry so much :-)
Take Care
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reader, shiraz +, writes (31 October 2008):
hiyah maybe you just need space. i find it hard to judge given your first post as it doesnt make much sense all i can figure out is you waiting for an answer and him unwilling to reply.
yeah you may be clingy but you have a right to know where you stand so wait for him to get in touch and tell him that.
make him wait for once and it not be you all the time, when he asks where youve been say you were giving him the space you got the impression he needed.
this makes you the bigger person and him feel quite bad for not being a real mate with you.
it might be hard not to talk to him but the longer you leave it the more hes likely to want to talk to you and it will be him come looking not the other way round. remind yourself your doing the right thing by keeping him at arms length or if you dont want to cut him out altogether then when he next logs in just say hiya and wait for a responce if you get no reply then you tried, but leave it at hiya and let him reply.
maybe he wants space for a reason so when hes ready to talk ask him what was wrong but not in a desperate way just lightly drop it in.
he may have a reason or he might just want a break either way you deserve to know the 'problem' behind it.
best of luck hope all goes well hun x
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reader, anonymous, writes (31 October 2008): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionhe is like more than a close friend if you get me...? were both gay
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