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My first love has already moved on, but I feel like a lousy person because I'm falling for his best friend!

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Question - (2 February 2014) 1 Answers - (Newest, 2 February 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, *arahprettybby writes:

So my ex boyfriend moved 6 hours and now has a new life and a baby with another girl. (They are not together by the way) HOWEVER, him and I still occasionally talk. We acknowledge that we still have a lot of love for each other but that the distance would've eventually taken its toll. We were each other's first love, he was my first for "everything", we grew up together etc.

Through all of these years, we still have mutual respect for each other BUT...I think I'm falling for his best friend who still lives here. We hung out last night (with a group of friends), and on the ride home (just him and I) things got touchy, flirty, lots of laughs. We just click. He also tried to kiss me but I wouldn't let him...even though I really wanted him to :/

I just feel like a lousy person for doing this to my first love with his best friend. I'm stuck because it's not like he lives here anymore or ever will, but we still love and respect each other. I just can't help my feelings for his best friend. Should I continue or would it be wrong? Help?!!

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A male reader, Myau New Zealand +, writes (2 February 2014):

Myau agony auntAs a guy, I have to be honest here. I wouldn't like to see my friend dating my ex.

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