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*asha92xx
writes:I have been with my fiancée' for 2 years now and we have been having sex maybe around 3 times a week. But now he is saying he's bored of sex and he doesn't like it. he just wants me to give him Blowjobs. I don't know how he can be bored of sex as i do try to make it more fun by putting on sexy lingerie and sucking him off before and doing everything i can to make it more passionate and things. Also he is 20. and lost his virginity when he was 15. what is going on?I'm 19 and i lost my virginity when i was 13 by my friends asking me basically forcing me to have sex with this guy in the woods. I regret it everyday and i wish i had lost it to someone special. I then had sex when i was 14 once, when i was 15-16 i started having sex more often. My fiancée' is the only man who has been able to make me orgasm, even make any kind of sound. Sometimes he says my vagina is loose and he cant feel anything.. why is this? is it because i lost my virginity at such a young age?He's also downloading alot of porn and hiding it from me and well you know arouses himself with it, later when i want to have some fun with him he will say he is tired. but ok only if you give me a blowjob before and then i will have sex with you and then let me cum inside your mouth.. I love him so much but im scared if i dont pleasure him enough he will leave me because he has already asked me if i want to have an open relationship.. even after he asked me to marry him but he asked me that ages ago... Sorry to be so WOW in your face with my personal life but i really hope you can help me out.. thank you so much for taking the time to read this. xxxMy Fiancée's dick is 7 inches long and im not really sure how wide but it is thick..I have tried putting 3 fingers inside and i cant it hurts too much.. i've also been doing keegel exercises and trying to contract the walls during sex but its hard.. to be honest.. he does'nt often say im loose because sometimes i cry when he tells me that. so now he doesnt bother saying but i can sense that he wants too. also when i am looking on his laptop to see what kind of porn he likes, just to see how i can make our sex lives better its all got this one girl called angelina valentine.. now she has fake boobs and mine are real and size D and he says your boobs are nice but they should be more closer together as if comparing me to angelina valentine.. shes a porn actress she has sex 24/7 her vag is probs losser then mine if im correct.. why is he comparing her to me? He's like you need to be a sexy girlfriend but a loving,caring homey wife... basically be a slut when it comes to sex, be an angel in front of his parents and be a nice caring not shouting not being moody wife
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reader, Ciar  + ♥, writes (30 November 2011):
 Your fiance doesn't want sex because it requires him to put in some effort. Porn and blow jobs do not. He doesn't want to admit he's become lazy and selfish so he tries to convince you it's your fault.Cancel the wedding and dump him.
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reader, So_Very_Confused  +, writes (30 November 2011):
 my first thought... DUMP HIM.
truly. he's emotionally abusing you. my boyfriend loves porn and big boobs and makes no bones about it. I just had surgery in June to reconstruct my belly and breasts after a massive weight loss. My poor baby boobs are now about a 36 B cup and the fullness is all on the bottom (as is common with old natural breasts) I know he wants porn star boobs... he can just keep praying for them.
I'm 51. I lost my virginity at 14. I have had two children by C-section and probably close to triple digits in male sex partners. I've had strap ons used. My first husband was VERY VERY VERY well endowed length and girth) as was my third husband girth wise and yet my current BF is not well endowed and yet our sex life is fine and while he actually prefers blow jobs to intercourse he worries more about pleasing me than himself. (as it should be for all partners)
I think that men expect vaginas to be as tight as their hands and it's just not going to happen. The vaginal vault is a muscle that collapses on itself when not giving birth or being penetrated. I mean seriously if you were that loose wouldn't your tampons just fall out??? He's full of crap to be honest...
Your issues are these:
1. he's lying about stuff to you (the downloading of the porn)
2. you have a lack of self-esteem based on comparisons with unreal role models in the form of plastic porn stars
3. you have an abusive unrealistic boyfriend who clearly is very self-centered
4. he wants a lady in the living room and a whore in the bedroom.. honey that’s an old line and it’s been around since BEFORE my MOTHER was born…
why is he comparing you to her.. because he has the emotions and mentality of a 12 yr old boy.
you are 19 and have been with this BOY since you are 17...
why do you want to stay with someone who does not love and accept you as you are?
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