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My fiance was looking at porn on his phone with my 9 year old sitting right next to him

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Question - (7 August 2018) 6 Answers - (Newest, 11 August 2018)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

Hi I was at work on Sunday my fiancé was at home looking after our 9 year old son I got up yesterday morning my son says to me while you were at work on Sunday my dad was looking at girls dresses all in leather on his phone while I was sat next to him I know my sons not lying cos I’ve seen him look at that myself (leather bondage clothing and also porn I think it’s wrong to be looking at things like that while sitting next to our son I had a go at my partner about it but he doesn’t think he has done anything wrong I don’t want my son seeing stuff like that at his age am I right for thinking it’s wrong cos my partner always says I’m overeacting what’s other people’s opinions thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2018):

Thank you everyone I have ended the relationship and he has moved out thank you for all your answers i knew I wasn’t overreacting

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2018):

I think that is disgusting he would expose your son to it. It wirries me that he doesnt understand sexual boundaries with children and i wonder what other lines he would cross. I would not marry him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (10 August 2018):

I do not know why you did not print my answer before but after doing more research it is indeed a crime to show a minor porn.It can indeed get both of them arrested and put on the sexual preditor list and there could be jail time.The child could be removed from the home if she still allowed the boyfriend to live with her and kids do brag at school about that kind of stuff.She should be allowed to know this info.The boyfriend is a jerk.She has a right to be informed because her freedom and custody are on the line here but hey moderator I guess that does not make good reading.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom + , writes (8 August 2018):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntYou're not overreacting. Tell him in no uncertain terms "there is a time and a place for things like that and it is NOT when you are supposed to be looking after our son!"

Personally, I wouldn't marry a guy who didn't understand or care that exposing a child to that is wrong and that looking after your child should be a priority over looking at adult stuff. If he doesn't get it, I wouldn't suggest sticking with him, but it's up to you.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 August 2018):

It is so wrong that if the police were called he would be arrested.If someone called CPS on you your child could be removed from your home and put into foster care.He is showing a minor child porn. That is a crime.Not only is it a crime how would you and your partner like to be put on the sexual preditor list forever.I include you because you not calling the police makes you just as crimally liable as he is.Is he worth going to jail for?Is he worth having your child put in foster care for? Think about it. School starts soon.Kids brag.It is only a matter of time before the police and CPS come a knocking at your door.Kick this lowlife out.lawyer up and report him.He should not be around children and you know it.He has done something wrong.You are not over reacting.In fact if this comes out that you did nothing about this your freedom and costdy of your child is on the line here.You do not need a man this bad.

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A female reader, Ivyblue Australia + , writes (8 August 2018):

Ivyblue agony auntSeriously, where is your mans head at? That is totally wrong. I'd go off my nut. Exposing children to porn and porn like material is an offence.

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