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My female friend said she had an "inappropriate" dream about me. What could it be?

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Question - (14 December 2017) 6 Answers - (Newest, 20 December 2017)
A male Australia age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A friend of the opposite gender brought something up. We were talking about dreams, all sorts of dreams, and then she said 'I had a dream about you recently'. I asked what the dream was about and then after a long pause she responded with 'it's inappropriate'. So I just said fair enough and then moved on.

Any guesses as to what the dream involved?

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (20 December 2017):

aunt honesty agony auntDo you like this girl or do you feel she likes you? If she brought it up to you, she must have wanted you to know why, maybe she has a soft spot for you.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (17 December 2017):

I think the fact that she made it SO OBVIOUS that it was sexual, but then acted shy (could be real shyness or playing coy) means that she definitely wants you to know that she is into you.

If you basically tell someone you had an inappropriate/dirty dream about them...well to me I would only do that if I was flirting hardcore.

She wants you to know you were in her mind and in her sleep :)

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (15 December 2017):

Honeypie agony auntI agree, probably sexual.

I agree with Chigirl, next time just ask - was it a good dream or bad?

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A female reader, chigirl Norway +, writes (15 December 2017):

chigirl agony auntDo you really need to ask? It was sexual. But don't take it as a sign she wants a relationship. Sex in a dream does not mean you want sex in real life with this person. It is just a dream that means she is exploring herself and who she is, comparing herself to others. In dreams, this "identifying" process is often expressed as sexual, but it is just a metaphor. She has either subconsciously seen a good side in you that she admires and wants to adapt to herself, or she has seen a negative side in you that she wonders if she also has. So her dream has sex with you in order to establish who she is, compared to you. You can only find out if she saw a good or a bad quality, by asking her if it was a good dream. If it was an unpleasant dream, then it was a bad quality. If it was a pleasant dream, then take it as a compliment that she admires a good quality of yours.

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A male reader, Allumeuse United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2017):

It was probably a sex dream. The fact that she had one doesn't mean anything in itself- but the fact that she didn't want to share it with you probably means she has thought about it and doesn't feel that way about you when she is awake.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom +, writes (15 December 2017):

N91 agony auntMore than likely sexual.

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