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My feelings for my female boss are affecting my work! Help!

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Question - (12 October 2011) 1 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2011)
A female Canada age 30-35, *8ter writes:

Hi,

I have a workplace issue. I'm pretty goshdarn smitten with my female manager. I'm not so sure if it's 'I want to date you feelings' so much as a sort of daughter-mother type yearning. Either way, it is making my work environment very stressful. I cannot take my mind off her and I get very jealous when others receive more attention than me. It is to the point where I often cry during breaks and when I head home. I don't know where to put these feelings. I need help or my performance at work will deteriorate !

thanks

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (12 October 2011):

aunt honesty agony auntIt sounds like your feelings are running very deep no matter what type of feelings they are. You need to get it sorted because it will effect your work in the long run. How is your relationship with your mother? Could these feelings stem from something that has made you unhappy in the past? You need to get to the bottom of it. I think maybe you should go to a therapist or else maybe even look for another job because this kind of obsession is not healthy at all.

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