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writes:I'm an 18 year old male. I consider myself as Bisexual but it's confusing. I definitely feel attracted to girls, although not as many as guys that I'm attracted to. I generally find Men more attractive. However, the idea of penetrative gay sex kind of repulses me although I'm ok with other stuff. However, when masturbating, it sort of acts as an off switch. I'm really turned on by the thought of guys one moment, then as soon as I ejaculate, its like i've had an excorcism, I'm a different person, the straight me, and the idea of doing anything with a guy repulses me. I don't really have the same problem when masturbating over girls.What's wrong with me, is it normal to switch between them like that???
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reader, jc2008 +, writes (16 September 2011):
Before I came out, I used to feel repulsed by my earlier feelings after masturbation, for me it was guilt and I hadn't accepted myself yet. Sounds like your bi-curious and you haven't found your preference yet. I'd say go for what you fantasize over the most and accept it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2011): Hi, I'm not gay so this is just a guess. I don't think that sexuality is islands in the sea, where you live on one island only. I think it's more like a string with three knots in it. You can be anywhere in between the knots, (some people are on their knot and that's that.) Do you see what I mean?Also you are shaped by the attitudes around you. Perhaps you have friends or family who do not like gay people? Perhaps you were raised in a community where it was viewed as shameful? I think you just need to take some time to get to know yourself. Maybe you are only interested in the not as hard core relations with another man. There's nothing wrong with that, you know, it is who you are. I don't think there is anything wrong with you. You just need to learn yourself and be comfortable with who you are.
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