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My family doesn't want us to be together

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Question - (22 September 2016) 3 Answers - (Newest, 22 September 2016)
A female Nigeria age 30-35, anonymous writes:

I hav a boyfriend whom I love so much,and he loves me in return but my parent don't want us together and I can't leave him for another man so pls help me out on what to do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (22 September 2016):

Is there a reason why your parents do not like him? Do they know something about him that you are unaware of? It is so easy to allow love to blind us, sometimes parents .. and friends for that matter.... see things in a partner that we don't... mainly because we don't want so see them. Have you tried asking your parents why? Do other people dislike him?

At your age I felt the same about a man and my Mum loathed him. Turns out he was not a good person in so many ways. Parents often have intuition and see what is good or bad for us when we are unable to. Talk to them, adult to adult and ask for an honest conversation about him.

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A female reader, aunt honesty Ireland +, writes (22 September 2016):

aunt honesty agony auntYou are an adult now, so you are able to make your own choices, just because your parents are not happy does not mean you should be unhappy. Talk to them about there reasons and tell them it is your future and your choice.

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A male reader, Sageoldguy1465 United States +, writes (22 September 2016):

Sageoldguy1465 agony auntWHO gets to live the remainder of your life? .... you? .... or, your parents?

The answer to that (question) is the answer to your question, on here....

Good luck...

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