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My ex told me she's pregnant, but now she's ignoring me.

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Question - (28 August 2011) 3 Answers - (Newest, 29 August 2011)
A male United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

My ex-girlfriend, whom i'm in a good status with, tells me that she's pregnant and it's mine. I believe her. Since that day, every call or text that i've sent out to her has gotten no response. Any theories as to what is going on?

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A reader, anonymous, writes (29 August 2011):

This happened to my brother, and it turned out that she was lying and just trying to get some revenge. I would say keep trying to contact her, and when the baby is born get a paternity test, just to be sure. Some women can be cruel, and some seem to think that they have all the right in the world to mess with a guy's head, but she doesn't.

On the other hand she may just be taking some time to think things through. either way keep trying to contact her, until you find out for sure.

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A female reader, tennisstar88 United States +, writes (29 August 2011):

tennisstar88 agony auntYour ex is pregnant, eh? And you're 100% without a doubt positive it's yours?

PATERNITY TEST, after the child is born to ensure it is indeed part of your DNA.

Cover your own ass here.

You can't make her talk to you...just back off of contacting for about a week then see if she makes an effort.

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A male reader, HelpyMcHelperson United Kingdom +, writes (29 August 2011):

Maybe she told you for the sake of fairness so that you know but doesn't want anything to do with you in terms of raising the baby? Or maybe she didn't decide to keep it.

There is no easy answer for this situation, just keep trying to reach her and remember to try and be supportive of however she plans to proceed.

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