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writes: Hey everyoneI'm here for a little bit of help, me and my boyfriend of 4 years have broken up. He hurt me really bad and i just dont know what i want to do anymore.We are going to be attending College together everyday for the next year and this time it's gonna be tough!! What do i do? He said he wants to be with me but he can't and that he doesn't want us to get back together cause he doesn't want to hurt me anymore, that he doesn't deserve me. I feel like getting back with him would be the easiest thing to do, but not the right thing.But how will i get over him? he's in ALL my classes, my parents absolutely love himand if not, How can i convince him to be with me again? Do i just play it cool and one day say we should start over?i've tried talking to him bout how I feel, i said i don't wana be together right now but i don't want him out of my life, he said that he wants me to move on even if its hard for him to accept, he doesnt want to move on. i dunno anymore =(
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reader, heartbrokenxx +, writes (30 January 2009):
heartbrokenxx is verified as being by the original poster of the question cause he doesn't want to hurt me anymore, he does stupid things like to push me away whenever we get too close. i dunno.i wish i could work it out, i just dunno howi miss him and i wish that he was with me still everyday.
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reader, Ginalolabridga  + ♥, writes (30 January 2009):
 Hi,
This is so hard to deal with especially going to the same classes at college! all you can do really is to try and make good of a bad situation be pleasant to each other and throw yourself into your work hopefully that will help you take your mind off it at times. If you are going to see one another just be civil to each other as nothing will be gained out of ignoring one another or being distant always best to end these things amicable, 4 yrs is a long time to be with some one if he is saying he wants to be with you but cant can i ask why?
Gina
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