A
female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Hey, so i dated this guy for 3 years then we broke up and we both started dating other people. the girl he was with though lasted a year. after they broke up he took me to niagara falls and for the past year i have seen him 1-6 times a month since he took me to niagara there were a few months in between i stayed away from him. every time we see each other we have sex. i really want to get back together with him but his excuse is he is not ready to be held down by someone and girls are asshole but he admitted to still having feelings for me. what do i do. i really want to become a couple again but know what to do!!
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (10 February 2010):
Men have the ability to have sex without feelings or committment. You cannot get a man to commit to you just because you give him sex. If that were possible then there would be a lot of married hookers!! The problem is that you are sleeping with a man who is not committed to you. You have made it easy for him and so you will wait a very long time, maybe forever, to get him to commit. My advice is tell him you want to be in a committed relationship and that you understand that he can't give this to you, so you are walking away. Perhaps when he has had time to reflect on your relationship, perhaps he might realize that you're the one. If not then you are now free to pursue someone else who will love you the way you deserve.
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