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30-35,
*oftballplaya
writes:I'm really lost right now.Okay so me and my ex have been textin since xmas eve, he was soo nice and so sweet the first few days then things started to go down hill. He wouldnt call when I asked him eventhough he promised he would. I could understand once or twice but every time? He didnt text me for a day and then yesterday he was acting so wierd. Like nothing like himself at all. He said "send a naked pic of you". I was shocked because hes never asked me that before. So I said "no" and he said "why?" I replied with "because you never do anything for me so why should I do that for you?" he got mad. And then said "well the next time I come out are we gonna have sex or something?" I couldnt beleive him! so I said no and he said fuck you then shows how much you love me. The last text message I sent was "guess so" Since then hes been texting me and flipping out. So I sent him a message on myspace and blocked him shortly after because I didnt want him to keep harassing me by text. I flipped out, saying how I was talking to someone else the whole time and how I didnt love him or care about him anymore. That boy has put me through a living hell multiple times and I've finally reached a point where I dont care for him anymore. He wont leave me alone and I clearly asked him to in the message I sent him on myspace. I dont know what to do, I'm trying not to pay attention to the texts that he keeps sending but some of them really hurt. :( please help me
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reader, prenezmoila +, writes (29 December 2008):
 This is something you're going to figure out on your own no matter what advice you get, so the best I can do is tell you what I know out of experience. This guy only wants your body, and if you are emotionally connected to him still, this is only going to hurt you more. Drop him. If you really have to, focus on another guy that you find attractive. This isn't really that healthy in the end, but at least it will take your mind off of your lame ex.
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reader, Nycee25 +, writes (29 December 2008):
Sounds like he's got you right were he wants you, vulnerable and available. He knows what he's doing that’s why he was so nice to you when he mysteriously called you out of nowhere, and then, you took the bate. What did he do? He disappeared on you. He knows he has you. Now that you are avoiding him, he will continue to contact you because he knows that you will eventually give in. Some men intentionally wheel females in and get them hooked so that they can have someone there to go to when they need them. They do this by playing on our emotions, which can be our weakness. Find someone who really cares for you. He sounds like a jerk!
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