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My ex is coming back into the picture and I don't like him!

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Question - (21 July 2010) 3 Answers - (Newest, 23 July 2010)
A female United States age 30-35, *abygirl2929 writes:

Okay well like i said before me and this kid have been dating for two months now. and its going good and everything, no problems. but now my ex is coming back into the picture. i dont like him. we dated about four times off and on. and each time was only like a week. so me and my ex just decided to be friend. but we never talked. and then the other day he texted me and we were getting in a fight. and i just went balistic on him. i told him he was a crappy bf and dont even give me that crap about (name) beacuse if you knew you liked her you shouldnt of used me to get over her! and i also said that i liked him a lot and he ruined it, every part of it. and i just want to be done for good. and he was just like ok. and then yesterday he texted me and was like did you mean all that stuff you said or was it all our of anger... and i was like a little bit of both. i told him i was already mad and i took it out on him and just said it. and then he asked why i liked my current bf more then him.. and i told him the truth and how i felt. but the problem is that he is still attached to me and wont move on and he doesnt get the fact that i have a bf that i love And care for.... what do i do?? also when me and my ex dated it was pretty much a texting relationship...

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A female reader, babygirl2929 United States +, writes (23 July 2010):

babygirl2929 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

babygirl2929 agony auntWe got in an argument because he was getting involved

in my business when he had no right cuz he did the same

thing. So I was asking what was any different from him doing it or

my bf. And also I told him I wanted to be done with him

and he txted me the next day and I told him the same thing. He doesn't get it!!!!!!

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A female reader, babygirl2929 United States +, writes (22 July 2010):

babygirl2929 is verified as being by the original poster of the question

babygirl2929 agony auntLook here "ask oldersister" you don't understand. If I'd didn't answer him

he wouldn't stop. By the night my whole inbox would be filled with messages from him. Just because I answer him doesn't mean I can't move on. Cuz I did. It's just easier if I answer the first time and just be done with it!!!

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A female reader, Squeaky United Kingdom +, writes (21 July 2010):

Stop texting him! What kind of a relationship is a text 1? How can you honestly call someone who mostly texts you a relationship at all? Especially when only dating week here week there. Just ignore him or I think the Boyfriend you are with now and for 2 months (not a week) is gonna get annoyed and you'll end up with neither. People can have loads of insecurities and constantly need reassurance. If he really was that bad and keeps asking for the truth, tell him and get rid. Maybe he'll have learnt what a relationship is for the next girl that comes his way!

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