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My ex crossed the line, keeps asking me for sex, touches me, etc. Please help.

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Question - (18 March 2008) 3 Answers - (Newest, 19 March 2008)
A female United Kingdom age 13-15, anonymous writes:

Hello i am 14, an here is my problem, my ex-boyfriend who is about 15 years old, keeps on asking me for sex and he came to call for me and we were just walking around then he got me against the wall and started kissing my neck and trying to get my leg up and putting his hands on my breasts and touching my bum etc.And so i just pretended my mum was on the phone and ran home and now he keeps sending me messages saying 'Babe, come on lets get jiggy with it! I'm in the mood for it' but i don't want to i don't fancy him and he is creeping me out slighty...please help me x

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A female reader, MissKin United Kingdom + , writes (19 March 2008):

MissKin agony auntI suggest telling your parents about your worries, if he's being this pushy you on't know what he can do. Tell somebody to make sure you're safe. Make sure you tell him blatantly to back the hell off. And if you don't want to actually go straight to telling someone - tell him if he doesn't stop, you're going to tell everyone.

I'd also suggest learning to defend yourself hun. Nothing serious but learn where to aim a good kick or a knee when you're in trouble, just incase things get out of hand - always remember the private area between a guys legs is a great way to send the message that you're not interested and you don't appreciate his advances. Don't be afraid to physically defend yourself if you need to. Make sure you tell someone and stay away from him.

Take care,

Miss Kin X

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A female reader, rhythmandblues2 United States + , writes (18 March 2008):

rhythmandblues2 agony auntThis guy is trouble, he is heading for juvenile delinquency if he continues treating girls that way....at all costs don't have any contact with him at all, in fact tell him you no longer want to hang out with him....if he continues to taunt you, tell a trusted adult as suggested previously. He is a perv.

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A male reader, Jamer70 United Kingdom +, writes (18 March 2008):

Jamer70 agony auntStay the hell away from this guy he sounds like an absolute perv and needs to be advioded.

Dont reply to any text and dont talk to him.

If you have to see him (like school) be with friends etc

If he continues tell your parent or an adult you can trust

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