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writes:I got a message from my ex's current girlfriend. He cheated and immediately got together with her after our breakup. I took the breakup better than I expected and became happier. But he always texts trying to get back together. He also started texting more when his friend told him I started talking to someone else. And she found out about it and became very jealous. I used to have some pictures where me and my ex went on dates somewhere cute. He asked me to delete them about a month after breaking up so I did. But I kept 2 pictures from football games because they were my favorite. It's been 5 months since the breakup and his girlfriend just texted me to delete them. Should I just not respond??
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2017): Do as she says and get those two losers out of your life forever.
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reader, anonymous, writes (1 August 2017): Block both of them from your timeline on Facebook; and ignore any further communications from either of them.
If you want to keep the pictures, download them and place them with your keepsakes. You really shouldn't publicly display pictures of you and your exes; if you really have moved on. Other guys will avoid you thinking there's still something going on. It also sends him the message he still has control over your feelings. You really don't want to send him that twisted message. He's not all that!
He's your sloppy leftovers. If she wants to gobble up the crumbs, let her have him. He's yesterday's news and you've moved on. Swipe him to the left!
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reader, Fatherly Advice + ♥, writes (1 August 2017):
 Well there you go. if you encourage a boy to leave his girlfriend to be with you you get to be a cheaters girlfriend. No wonder she is jealous. How could she trust him knowing what he did with her. I'd delete every picture that reminds you of him. and block messaging from both of them, Why do you need these feckless honor-less cheaters in your life?
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reader, N91  +, writes (31 July 2017):
 I'd ignore her.
Nothing to do with her or even him what's on your facebook. I'd also block them both..
What's he going to do if you don't delete the pictures? Call the police? Do whatever you want on your social media.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (31 July 2017):
 I would ignore her "request".
And I would have my pictures PRIVATE so that only FRIENDS can see them. If she isn't a friend on Facebook with you, she can't see them.
As for the ex-bf texting you? Really? Do you need to be in contact with him? He cheated on you and you don't owe him "friendship" or to be his "texting buddy" or "ego rubber" for him. If I were you I'd block his phone number and block him on Facebook. He doesn't need to poke around in your life and see what you are doing. He dated you and cheated on you. HE had his chance at being in your life and he BLEW it.
WHAT you post on YOUR page (be it Instagram/FB/Tumblr/wherever) that is UP to you to decide to leave up or pull down.
So change your setting so that ONLY friends can see your pictures. This new GF doesn't NEED to go through YOUR pictures and tell you what you can leave up and what you can't.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (31 July 2017):
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reader, chigirl +, writes (31 July 2017):
Why do you need these pictures? Print them out and keep in a photo book if you like, but remove them from the internet if your ex boyfriend is in the pictures and if he har requested that they be removed. You always need permission to post pictures online of orhers. Once there is no longer permission, remove the pictures.
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