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My ex boyfriend wants me to drive him to his work.

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Question - (30 June 2014) 5 Answers - (Newest, 1 July 2014)
A female United States age 26-29, *smile007 writes:

so me and my ex have broken up but its only been about 1 month or so... he says in a another relationship already like he has a new girlfriend... now he has been contacting me saying that he loves me even when we talk on the phone its love you... why is that... if he in a new relationship why say such things to me... is he lying or telling the truth. now he contacted me out the blue I haven't really heard from in a about a week or so... he needs help getting to a job site because he doesn't have a car and I do. honestly I do not mind helping him with that cause I know he needs a job but I feel like maybe secretively he is just using me... I already told him yea I could do it and he can not quit because it will make the company look bad because his first day is tomorrow. I don't know if I have made a mistake or not...

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A male reader, methuselah United Kingdom +, writes (1 July 2014):


You are being used. He shows you no respect. If he loves you, then why is he with someone else so soon? You need to say, 'No' and distance yourself from him.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (1 July 2014):

Honeypie agony auntIs this a one time driving deal or does he expect you to be his chauffeur for a longer period of time? Because if it's the latter that is ridiculous. He needs to find a way to get to work and home without relying on an EX gf...

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A female reader, YouWish United States + , writes (1 July 2014):

YouWish agony auntGROSS! Tell him to call his new girlfriend for rides, because you are no longer in a relationship with him. He *IS* using you, and he is being cruel to the new girlfriend in his life.

Block his number and end all contact with him.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 July 2014):

He is using you. Stop. Don't enable his behavior. Get faaaaar away from him.

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A male reader, Mark1978 United Kingdom +, writes (30 June 2014):

Mark1978 agony auntSounds like he is using you. He is telling you he loves you to get you to give him what he wants.

The fact is he is your Ex and he is now with someone else. He needs to sort his own life out now not rely on an ex for a free taxi service. Whether he is telling the truth when he says he loves you or not is irrelevant in a way as he is with someone else and the two of you split up for a reason.


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