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*mileyface.
writes:there is a kid that i dated in 2008 - 2009 for almost a full year. 5 months into our relationship he cheated on me with my bestfriend, i didnt know because i never paid attention because i never thought that would happen, when i found out i confronted her and i was angry, she told me i had to deal with it and move on, an when i said something to him he said i still love you she was a mistake, and yada, yada, yada! he started to stalk me and calling me 24/7 after i broke up with him. and almost a yr and a half later, he is still contacting me and wont leave me alone. i have a fiance now, and he knows i do, but he doesnt care, and he doesnt take no for an answer. what should i do ? please help, anyone ? ? ?
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reader, Secretlife  +, writes (3 January 2011):
Tell him that what yall had in the past is over. And that you are with someone else. Change your phone number and email adress. Tell your friends and family not to give him your number. Tell your fiance all about him and how he wont leave you alone so that he doesnt think your cheating In the mean time just ignore all his calls and text messages. And get a restraining order.
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reader, Mjfbla +, writes (3 January 2011):
 Tell him to leave you alone or youll get a restraining order against him. Change your number, email, block him from any facebook or myspace. Your not hiding if you do this. Your ending a stupid game that he is forcing you to play.
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reader, fi_the_tree  +, writes (3 January 2011):
 You need to change any method of contact you have, phone number, email address, cell number. Block him from social networking sites and keep track of whenever you see him outside your house (that's if he goes that far)
This is the only way. Tell your friends that if he contacts them asking for your new number, ask them not to give it to him. Hopefully he'll get the message soon enough and leave you alone!
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