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writes:My ex dumped me barely two months ago. I am still in love with him, but have just found out that he is going to ask another girl out, and that he has found someone else. It felt like my heart just got broken again. How do I move past this?
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): Would you really want to be with someone like that? Good riddance. If he comes unstuck pls dont take him back. It gets better.
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reader, lakers_lover09  +, writes (27 November 2011):
I hate hearing these stories. Its sad tht love always has a possibility to end in heartbreak. If he went on to dating someone so quickly, it probably means tht he was considering the breakup before it was initiated, or tht he questioned the relationship at some point. Losin an ex is like turnin a new chapter in a book so step one is not to stay on the previous pages for too long. He's gone, new chapter, arent u ready to see whats next to come in ur life? If he comes back down the road then u can make a decision on him, but for now u should just turn the page and continue with life. One thing tht u gotta remember is ur qualities tht made him attracted to u in the first place. He is not the end of the road for u, and someome will love u for the same reasons he did. Because u r as special as any other gir. and the quicker u can move past him, the sooner u can embrace new life experiemces and new love. Good luck!
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reader, bluegreen  +, writes (27 November 2011):
 If you still love your ex, you should be happy for him. At the same time, you should also provide some pride within you, feel beautiful, be with your friends but never take revenge.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 November 2011):
As others have said, there really isn't anything you can do other than to continue moving forward in your own time. You really need to make sure you don't continually look into his life, or check her out or look at facebook etc.
What you have to do is focus on your own life and continue to move forward.
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reader, chickpea2011 +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Hi,If he has found someone so soon, that means he never loved you in the first place. I don't know why he broke up with you, but if he really care about you, even if you are no longer together, it's "impossible" to get over someone you truly care, love in 2 weeks. You know, people fall in love, and fall out of love for various reasons. There's no one to blame, he must have his reasons to end the relationship, but already asking someone out in 2 weeks? Shows his character, and he's selfish. I know you are in a lot of pain. This must be shocking to you, because 2 weeks is not enough time to heal. Please, do what's best for you, and start taking care of yourself. Do not contact him anymore, and if he does, please ignore him. I know you want answers, but sometimes you need to move on. It's unfair, it's cruel, but you need to be strong.... The sooner you start taking steps to heal, the sooner you will not feel pain. Just know this is not your fault. He doesn't deserve you. Remember, what goes around, comes around. Keep yourself busy, be glad that you never have to see this looser again, and that he's out of your life. You don't need fake people in your life. Take your time to heal, cry, talk, do whatever it takes to let go of this pain. After you had enough time, get rid off anything that reminds you of him. Delete all contact, Facebook, everything!! Do not think of the past, do not let your mind control your life, be strong, positive, so good guys can approach you. Take care, and good luck!
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reader, hannah76 +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Hello,
I'm sorry to say that life can be like that and people and and ex's can do all this. When people say, "that's life." I'm afraid that's what it is. Sadly, for you, I'm afraid he has now moved on. So.....you have to as well. Give yourself time to heal and try not to keep up with what he is doing or what is going on. It will only make you sadder and sadder.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 November 2011): Sorry to hear you was in love with such a shallow character. He has proved he just doesnt want to be alone and it doesnt matter to him as long as he`s got a woman. That is the best thing to know in helping you move on. There is no short fix for this. It will happen in good time as long as there is zero contact. It hurts,but it will eventually ease.
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reader, supermum +, writes (27 November 2011):
 Unfortunately there is nothing you can do... he has made his choice, and you are going to have to live with it.I know it hurts right now, but take comfort in the fact that if he left you and moved on so quickly he was not the right one for you....which means Mr Right is still searching for you somewhere!You didn't mention how long you were together, but you had a life before him and you sure can have a life without him too.Spend some time focusing on yourself, use this to make yourself stronger... and be patient, things will improve, I pinky promise :)
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