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writes:I broke up with my ex in January 2004, I had had suspicions for some time that he liked this other girl and sure enough they started going out a couple of weeks later! Since then I have tried to stay friends with him but he likes going down memory street alot so now i dont contact him at all, however now his current girlf ,who he got with straight after we broke up, is now trying to get in touch with me, I really dont understand why... I have remained silent so far, Ive got over what happened but I feel a bit like she is a reminder and I dont understand what she wants from me, she only knows me as the girl her boyf once dated.. what are her motives do you think?
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThanks for your responses! Its just that i dont think she is approaching me for help - I think she is just trying to be friendly... She found out somehow I was going to go on holiday to Spain & out of nowhere this week wished me a good time! But why?? you think she is tryin to suss me out? but also isnt it 3yrs too late? Its not like we could ever be friends anyway...
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reader, anonymous, writes (5 April 2007): The tasteful and honourable thing to do is to not discuss in any real detail your past relationship. If she needs those answers, she ought to get them from (your former, her current) boyfriend rather than sneak under his radar and go to you. You might remind her of that if she won't leave you alone. If you don't give out any juicy details she'll give up eventually.
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reader, Lemonpixie  +, writes (5 April 2007):
 Maybe she wants some dirt. She knows he moves on fast maybe they are having troubles and the same thing is happening all over again. It could be a number of things really. If she does get ahold of you just let her talk dont give her any dirt unless you feel it neccesary.
I'm going through the situation of my ex moving on fast with this girl i knew he liked before. It's annoying and frustrating. I'd be peeeved if she asked for help from me! hehe
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