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writes: Ok, I know this is weird but I had a dream that my best friend, me and my bf where at the movies, and I noticed he was completly ignoring me and I saw him and her keep talking (In real life they seem to have more in common than we do) until I saw him put his head on her chest. I woke up, not knowing why I would have such a dream and I cant seem to get it out of my head. I cant even look at my friend the same way anymore cause I feel like dreams have meanings. How do I get over this.
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reader, happytochat  + ♥, writes (2 December 2005):
I believe your dreams represent your feelings and emotions in life. This dream symbolises either your insecurities with yourself of lack of trust and faith in yours and your bf's relationship. It seems to me that you feel your bf and friend share a coneection or are close, as they share the same interests. Are you jealous that you and your bf don't have that? Thats udnerstandable if you are.I think you either do not feel the relationship wiht your bf is strong enough to outhold other girls, like your friends, or you have lakc of trust in your friend. Does any of this seem familiar?Or maybe you have alot of insecurites about yourself. Do you not love yourself and believe you deserve the total best? People who feel this way often have fears of there partners cheating on them or them being the unloved person in a situation.My advice to you is if the problme is the lack of trust and faith you have in the relationship or maybe you feel he isnt commited then work on making it STRONGER. Things such as talking more to the person about yours and there life. Talk about what happens each day. Talk about your feelinggs and opinions on all topics in life, from politics, to family, to love, to marriage, to kids, to crimes and other things. And then talk about each others feelings towards people in there life. Find out how he feels about his friends and family. This will bring your emotional side of the relationsdhip up. And most importantly when yoru down talk about it to him so he can listen and support you.If the issue is more so your own insecurities then work on ways to love yourself. Practice postive self talk. Focus on your good points. I hope that helped. good luck and I hope everything goes well :)
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reader, iggyzap +, writes (2 December 2005):
i think dreams have meanings too but they are not usually what they seem. i have dream like that about my bf too and sometimes i wake up crying and sometimes i even get ill and very angry at him after ive had one of those dreams and thats not fair to him cause he really didnt do anything wrong. we dream of all sorts of things and they are just dreams and unless you have reason to suspect that there is more going on between them then you should have no reason to worry. tell him about your dream and share your feelings about it with him. i tell my bf about mine and he comforts me and shares his bad dreams about me cheating on him and once its out in the open i find it easier to forget
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reader, anonymous, writes (2 December 2005): Hi my sister!!!face the facts so as to deal with them accordingly.u don't trust that u are a right person for ur b/f,u are feel jelousy of ur best friend and u are insecure in this relationship.if you don't deal with this in time,it will ruin ur relationship and it will cause disaster to ur friendship with this other lady.u dreamed about it because u were thinking about it,other than that it carries no meaning untill u decide to give it life and meaning.do not tell ur boyfriend about it and never tell ur friend either.are there any reasons that led to u seeing the posibilities of them together? maybe he is giving her more attention when u are together? discuss that one with him,tell him ur conserns.but plzzz be careful of ur tone it may send wrong vibes.good luck though!!!
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reader, ALEY KAT +, writes (2 December 2005):
THE BEST WAY TO GET OVER IT IS TO JUST KNOW THAT IT WAS A DREAM, AND NOTHING MORE!!! WHY STRESS ABOUT SHIT THAT HASNT EVEN HAPPENED YET?!? WHOS EVEN TO SAY THAT YOUR BF WILL EVER GET WITH YOUR BEST FRIEND. ALSO HOW CAN YOU HOLD YOUR THOUGHTS AGAINST SOMEONE ELSE? THATS NOT FAIR TO YOUR BEST FRIEND AT ALL!!! HOPE THIS MAKES YOU THINK!!!
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