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My current bf is taking this too fast, but past pain with my ex bf, still haunts me!

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Question - (13 January 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 14 January 2007)
A female age 41-50, *bijones_21 writes:

hi,

about 6 months ago,my heart was broken in a terrible manner by my ex - kayode but now i'm dating someone else, femi.i went to the same pre-college with him and i knew he had a crush on me back then (8yrs ago) but nothing happened.after a while,we lost contact but we found each other again about a year ago.around this time,i was still involved with kayode.my heart was broken in july and i started dating femi in september.the problem now is that i have a lot of insecurity,paranoia and it is affecting our relationship.i know femi loves me but i'm always comparing him to my kayode,hes just as sensitive as i am and he loves attention as well.it seems to me as if he expects me to be healed and normal by now so he demands from me and i'm not ready to give. what do i do and by the way i do like him and he is talking marriage with me?

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A female reader, cd206 United Kingdom +, writes (14 January 2007):

cd206 agony auntThe only thing you can really do is ask him to slow down while you get your head together. Maybe he won't understand and maybe he will. It seems like perhaps you jumped into another relationship too soon after finishing with your ex. Just tell your current boyfriend that if he wants to stay with you you're going to need your space and see what happens.

Hope this helps.

CD

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