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My crush and I are now in regular contact, think it could develop into something meaningful?

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Question - (12 April 2013) 1 Answers - (Newest, 3 April 2014)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

A guy I've been crushing on, we've became facebook friends for some time now and I've noticed, since we became facebook friends he updates it more often now. I got curious and uhhh went through a bit of his timeline on facebook haha It wasn't updated much and now its updated often. We sit next to each other in class. We had spring break recently, and when school came back in session, we hung out during out 15 min break during our 3 hour lecture + also walk together while leaving campus. since the semester started, he always looked at me or my direction during the lecture. I'd catch him sometimes, our eyes would lock for a bit than return. I'm wondering if this is telling me we can hang out outside of campus? I'd love to get to know him better before diving into a relationship. Or even if he feels the same way I do.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (3 April 2014):

Hey,

I think that you and this guy definitely have potential. If you say he's started updating his statuses more, you hang out more during your lecture breaks, have intense eye contact and you EVEN WALK HOME TOGETHER! Like c'mon if that doesn't scream I'M KEEN I WANT YOU, then I'm not sure what it does.

Haha, anyways, I reckon you should just go for it. Start chatting to him on Facebook more, keep talking at school and ask him to hang out with you more, go to the movies, for walks just the two of you. And I'm sure within due time, he'll realise and make a move. If he doesn't, you make the move. Don't always rely and wait upon the guy to make the move cause chances are he is JUST as nervous as you are.

I think you should make a move before it's too late, or you become stuck in that plateau stage, where you're stuck in the "friend-zone",I hate that concept but it is real.

So I say, go for it girl!! Keep us posted.

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