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*injaa33
writes:I'm in a sticky situation. It all started at my moms birthday when I was getting tired and went to my room to change in to pajamas. My step cousins husband then walked in an saw me changing. I tried to get away, but I couldn't. He then started making out with me, I was scared so I stayed up until he left cuz was scared to go to sleep. So ever since, he's tried to kiss me again, and honestly, I let him and I kinda liked it. Well today at school, he picked me up during our football game and took me to a quiet place. It was dark and we were in his car, and well we started making out. Then he got on top of me and started kissing my neck, and he put his hand up my shirt, started grabbing my boobs and then he wanted to put his hand in my pants but I didnt let him. Then he just started feeling me down over my jeans. He was wearing basketball shorts, and I could feel him gettting hard. Well he's 31 and I'm 16. I don't know what to do. I like it... I know it's so wrong, and this is not like me, not one bit. What should I do!?
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 October 2008): i guess its okay to see him but be careful not get so cocky because when you get sloppy you get caught and you will not be dragging yourself on the dirt but the whole family his and yours. jessica Q - perris CA
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 September 2008): You should tell your cousin about it, maybe then she could stop him coming to your house and you should be makeing out wih people in your age group anyway
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): I totally understand what your going through, i myself is in that same situation with a man who is 35 and im 18. Not only that but hes been in my family since i was very little his wife is my moms bestfriend, our families are in a business together and he has three beautiful children. not to mention that i babysit for them regularely and thats when everything had started. it was nothing at first but then we started hanging out outside of work and i actually really enjoy his presence, he admitted his feelings and i of course did too. we click.
I dont know what to do either and i feel for you completely. I wanna say we should both just stop right now before we get into complications with everything. It would really save allot of trouble but you cant help how you feel and its very hard.Have you confronted him about his intentions with you and how he feels with the very different lifestyles not to mention age??
anyways i hope everything goes well and you choose for the best
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reader, hello kitty 101 +, writes (26 September 2008):
 go to your mom and dad now they need to know this is wrong you are stil a baby he can go to jail for this dont be afarid to tell if you dont stop it now he may try to rape you please let someone know
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reader, Fairy_Lu  +, writes (26 September 2008):
 Tell your parents tell someone this is WRONG and you need to stop this now! He has a wife and a family and he should not be doing this and neither should you do not go anywhere alone with him and tell someone as soon as you can before it goes any further
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 September 2008): Tell your parents, this isn't right and he can be put in jail for this. If that dosen't sway your mind, maybe the fact he's married and 15yrs older than you should. Just tell him to back off or your tell his wife
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (26 September 2008):
 Personally I 'm not into dirty old men anyway....which is exactly what he is!
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reader, Befuddled1 +, writes (26 September 2008):
You have a responsilibility to your cousin to stop this now. it is natural to want to be close to a man and horny but do it with someone outside your family. he is just using you anyway! He is a cheating scum sucker
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