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age
30-35,
Nativebon
writes:Am a gay guy.(male) I travelled abroad about 4 months ago and met my cousin who I have not seen for 15 years. I was very attracted 2 him. My cousin is straight.Anyway am back in London now. We are very close and he knows about my sexauality. He wants 2 come visit me in London, I told him it will be a problem, cause I find him very sexually atractive and he knows this. I cannot go through that 4 a month of his stay it will be hell 4 me.He said he would have sex with me if i was not his cousin. But he is very very upset that am not inviting him over. What should i do or say 2 him. Please help.
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reader, Philostyle  +, writes (13 June 2007):
You should get a hold of yourself: he's your cousin! You are not an animal and he is obviously confused by the fact that your family and don't want to see him because he thinks your cool. There are so many people out there that could not severely screw up your life/family as this potentially could, so get to looking (elsewhere)!
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reader, vixy +, writes (27 May 2007):
for one he's your cousin and your family will be at sides
some horrorifed and disgusted. some ok with it but prefer not to see you with him sorta thing.
plus it'll break both your heart and his.
and if it doesn't work out, nothing will be the same in your family again i'm afraid to say.
so i think wait until this attraction goes away and then see him.
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reader, DV1 +, writes (27 May 2007):
 You should keep him a distance, because you're going to break your own heart if you don't.
DV1
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