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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:A bit distressed about a situation I got myself in. I'm lesbian and was attracted to this bisexual woman bc of her outward beauty....knowing her now she's spoiled, selfish, and irresponsible. I never intended to date her, just get to know her. I've taken her to work, took her home a few nights even took her to a lunch buffet all without asking or receiving a dime from her. Just being a friend.. one day I ended up telling her no I won't do this or that and she nearly cussed me out. Later that day she begin talking to me only bc she wanted me to take her home from work n help her with her hair. A couple days later I didn't respond when she needed a ride to work so she gets upset n avoids speaking when she see me days later. Days rolls by n she calls me out the blue asking can I pick her up from work......It's a endless cycle...and I know she only wants to use me for her benefit. I don't want any problems and that's all I get from her. She text me to say I think we should just be cool cause its not working out.....I'm like wtf we are only cool and nothing else. I don't want to deal with her but we work together so I don't want animosity. Any advice would be appreciated.
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reader, Thisiscrazy  +, writes (1 May 2012):
 If she asks for anything else just say no sorry I think we need to keep our distance from anything outside of work.. If she goes off at you just end the conversation and get busy with work... Keep any argument she wants to start out of your work place but be polite about it.. Now if she is calling and texting you get your number changed ... As long as your polite and professional at work then there shouldn't be any issues... Good luck
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