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My choice...His choice...Where do I go from here?

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Question - (10 March 2008) 1 Answers - (Newest, 10 March 2008)
A female United States age 30-35, *ngel102307 writes:

My boyfriend is in the Air Force. He might have the opportunity to go to the base in DE. But, Hes being so stubborn and keeps repeating himself "I wont go without you." I keep telling him, If he doesn't take it than he will be stuck here for the rest of his five years and i could leave. I am more flexible to move than he is. He just doesn't understand it! If i know him well enough he won't take this opportunity and he will be stuck here and i would probably go somewhere. Does this make any sense?!? Sometimes i just want to give up on this relationship and let him go on his career route and let me go my career route.

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A female reader, Variety United Kingdom +, writes (10 March 2008):

Variety agony auntWell if you're 16/17 you probably have commitments that mean you can't go with him now. But if you think it is worth it then make plans to go with him when you are older. If you survive the time apart then it shows a lot about the strength of your relationship. x

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