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*ngel102307
writes:My boyfriend is in the Air Force. He might have the opportunity to go to the base in DE. But, Hes being so stubborn and keeps repeating himself "I wont go without you." I keep telling him, If he doesn't take it than he will be stuck here for the rest of his five years and i could leave. I am more flexible to move than he is. He just doesn't understand it! If i know him well enough he won't take this opportunity and he will be stuck here and i would probably go somewhere. Does this make any sense?!? Sometimes i just want to give up on this relationship and let him go on his career route and let me go my career route.:/ Advice? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Variety  +, writes (10 March 2008):
 Well if you're 16/17 you probably have commitments that mean you can't go with him now. But if you think it is worth it then make plans to go with him when you are older. If you survive the time apart then it shows a lot about the strength of your relationship. x
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reader, Annalisa +, writes (10 March 2008):
 It sounds like he wants to go, but he also wants to be with you... in the sense of you going with him!
Are you up for the move and seeing where it leads you?
If you're flexible, why not go with him and find your own path close to him?
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