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vpom924
writes:Hey everyone, I'm really in need of some advice(obviously). I am 20 years old and I recently started going to a chiropractor a month ago. He is the nicest guy ever and is just, amazing. I have found myself thinking about him a lot and I have developed feelings for him, I had a dream about him last weekend. He is older than me, and no I don't have any sort of issue with age, seeing as my ex of 3 years was 10 years older than me. I see him 3x/week, he was married but is not anymore.Anyway, I can't tell if he is feeling the same with me, for example a few weeks ago he asked about my plans for the weekend and I think I said something like "ooh I don't have any, I'm not so popular..." and his response was something like "what? that's insane, you are a very nice and attractive young lady". He also gives me hugs sometimes..like tonight. I was the only one there at the time and as I was getting up to leave (you have to lay on these massage beds as part of therapy in a seperate room) it was as if he was just standing there waiting for me and he came up to me and gave me a hug and we talked some more and he gave me like 2 more hugs. He also told me tonight that I 'am a very special lady'. I don't know what to do. I'm very shy as it is, but I get this feeling that he kinda has a thing for me too. I want to make a move so bad or drop a hint but I don't know how! Sorry for making this so long!
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2007): i think i would say something to him, like would you like to go out to lunch. i'm in love with someone 18 years younger and i wish she would say something. it makes it easier. he probably does have feelings for you but is afraid to express them to you.
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reader, baby duck + ♥, writes (7 December 2007):
 Be careful. I used to work for a chiropractor and I cannot tell you how many people misread him. As you know, the nature of his work requires a lot of touching; just the nature of an adjustment feels like he is hugging you in a prone position.
I would not read too much into this. Unless he comes right out and says, "Would you like to go out to dinner on Saturday night," I would treat his friendliness as just trying to boost your self-esteem.
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