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writes:So my brother has returned home after getting his degree from college. He's sticking around, so he can get his life in order. It's been a long time since I've last seen him. We've been pretty much on neutral grounds as we grew up. We weren't really close, but we still loved each as brother and sister. Something worries me though.He's changed. He's a bit more outgoing now where I knew him to be a bit quiet and reserved. He used to play video games a lot, but now he's a bit more active. He also seems to be checking me out. I mean, it doesn't really bother me since he's a guy, and guys can't help but look at girls sometimes.He sometimes tells me that I look hot or I look sexy. It's actually been giving me a really good confidence boost. I kind of like the attention, but it's sort of weird coming from him. I don't think my brother should be saying these things, but I also don't really want him to stop. I'm glad my brother is back home, but I feel like I don't really know him like I used to. Is he still the brother I once knew really well?
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reader, Deeyawn +, writes (25 November 2010):
Get Him Outta There, Your Brother Is Your Brother Not A Friend... IfHes Touching You Or Making Remarks Get Him Out... It's Times Like This You Dont Wanna Drama At Home, If Your Still With Your Parents, (TELL THEM FIRST) Tell Them To Keep An Eye Out First
they Will Protect You Even If They Do Blow You Off At First, The Point Is, Is They Will Know
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reader, alice0110  +, writes (25 November 2010):
it sounds as though he now just has alot of confidence and is in a good mood. if you are uncomfortable with it, tell him. hes your brother at the end of the day, he should be accept what you think and say.
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 People change. If you don't like the way he looks at you and the things he tells you (the sexy part is going over the line if you ask me) then TELL him so. Tell him to stop it, it makes you feel uncomfortable, and he is your brother and should NOT think of you like that.
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (25 November 2010):
 Ok this is wrong on so many levels, i understand that you enjoy the attention but it is wrong to be coming from someone like your brother, yes he is a guy but he should not be checking out his sister that is just wrong, you talk to any guy and ask them this and they will think it is disgusting. You know if your enjoying the attention or not this needs to stop. If it were me i would be feeling really uncomfortable. Its sleezy behaviour and he is meant to play a protective role in your life, were he looks out for you, not hit on you. Next time he says something like that, tell him that it does not make you feel comfortable him talking to you like that as he is your brother and it is wrong. If he doesnt stop then i think you need to sit down and talk to your parents about this.
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