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writes:Hey, i have asked many questions here and i no i haven't replied to as many as i could of but i have a question."Is my brother sexually abusing me even if he is younger then me ? "My brother is 11 and i am 13 and he keeps pinning me to the floor and humps me ( with clothes on) and kisses and licks my face. I really hate this and because he is heavier and stronger than i am it is impossible to kick him off. I hate what he is doing but don't want him to end up in jail.What do I do ?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 August 2007): it has to be stopped before it's too late little girl..tell him first that you do not like the way he act.. if thingsdoes not work out then you should tell your parents so as togive him a warning..
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reader, Chippy334  +, writes (16 August 2007):
 Tell your parents. If they don't help kick him in the nuts. That would stop me.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Little love i went thru the same thing with my brother but he was older and more things started to happen It felt wrong and it as affected me all my life .I can never trust him and have no contact with him . I just wished id told my parents long ago. Go tell someone right away
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reader, LauraE +, writes (15 August 2007):
Hi there,
I agree with all the others, you have to tell your parents. He won’t end up in jail, he is too young. But he does need help now. If you say nothing, it could get even worse in time. He could also start doing this to other girls. Tell them today.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): I did what you described to a sister of my friend once when I was much younger. I can remember that part of it was that I was beginning to come of age and had no idea where or how to place that energy (I didn't realize it then, of course). Once I noticed that she did not like it, I forced myself to stop, even though I didn't want to. The pinning down was because I wanted control.
If your brother is going through the same sort of experience, then I'm going to guess that he's chosen you because one, he knows that he can control you and two, he's comfortable around you, as I did with her.
Now, it doesn't mean that he should be doing it and I am not excusing my own behavior. I think that you should tell your parents and they should explain to him what he's doing and why he shouldn't do it. Your brother may not know what he's doing or why he's doing it (except the part that he knows that he's antagonizing his sister).
Either way, it's time for a bird's and bee's discussion with the lad.
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 August 2007): Tell your parents straight away!
He should not be doing that, most of all he is making you feel dirty and bad about yourself! That isnt proper behaviour and it needs to stop before he does something the both of you could regret!
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reader, flower girl +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Tell your parents about this behaviour darling, it's not right for him to be doing this and it needs to be stopped.
Take care.xx.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (15 August 2007):
 You have the right not to be abused in your own home. Your younger brother needs urgent professional help to stop him from turning into a sexual predator as an adult. He won't go to jail for sexual abuse as he is too young, but if reported social services and the NHS can offer him specialist counselling services to teach him the right way to behave. By remaining silent you do him no favours as he clearly must have enormous emotional problems if he wishes to relate to his sister like this. It is braver and better for you to speak to someone about this - a parent, a teacher or family friend. You can also call childline or the NSPCC for some specialist help by people who really understand what you are going through.
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reader, sexi  +, writes (15 August 2007):
 Hi, You can try speaking to him. Sit him down and tell him that you don't like what he does to you. Make him understand that it upsets you. If that does not work you should tell your mum or an adult that you are comfortable to speak what he is doing to you.Dont worry you would not be getting him in trouble, you just not comfortable with what is hapenning to you.
Take Care,Mail me if you wanna talk
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reader, Jenks 666 +, writes (15 August 2007):
Talk to your parents and tell them to stop him
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