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My boyfriend's family wont accept me because they cannot accept their son is gay, should I leave him alone even though we want to be together?

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Question - (24 August 2010) 5 Answers - (Newest, 10 September 2010)
A male United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

my boyfriend is having trouble with his parents accpeting the fact that he likes guys.... i know that they dont like me for that reason and might attempt to get me into trouble about this should i leave him alone even thought we really want to be together?

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A male reader, Bobito United Kingdom +, writes (10 September 2010):

Bobito agony auntHoney... whether you stay with him or not, he is and will always be gay. If you love each other, stay together.

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A male reader, AvgGuy1 United States +, writes (28 August 2010):

AvgGuy1 agony auntYour question doesn't state his age. Yours is implied by the id of the questioner.

If he's under 18, and you are not... then you're both just going to have to wait until he IS 18. Otherwise... his parents COULD cause you some serious problems that will haunt you your whole life.

If you are BOTH legal (18), then there's probably nothing really that they can do about you two meeting up. You, obviously, will have to respect their obvious objections... and not hang out at their house... or perhaps not even go over there. Meet up elsewhere.

More details would have helped us all provide more appropriate feedback.

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A male reader, johnny angel United States +, writes (24 August 2010):

johnny angel agony aunthow old are you if you both adults then his family cant do much about you being together i had the same problem a few monthes ago with my now bf after a while his family stoped trying to split us up after relising that were adults and yes we love each other its not wrong to love some one of the same sex it just takes some getting used to for everyone pesist in being there for him and ingnore the hurtful and sometimes hateful wordes of his family and see how you go

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A male reader, Cerberus_Raphael Sweden +, writes (24 August 2010):

Cerberus_Raphael agony auntLeaving him alone isn't going to help both of you. Don't be aggressive towards his family but make it clear that you have every intention of being with this guy.

If you're both old enough, you have every chance in the world of being together no matter what anyone else thinks. If he's not old enough, just wait a while.

I hope that helps.

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A male reader, Boonridge McPhalify United Kingdom +, writes (24 August 2010):

Boonridge McPhalify agony aunthow old is he? why cant you two move in together? if you cant maybe you will have to give in to the situation and just move on...

sorry but if you dont own where you live a relationship will be marred by the people that do own the living space

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