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My boyfriend's dad told him we were sleeping together! We aren't!

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Question - (13 June 2014) 6 Answers - (Newest, 14 June 2014)
A female United States age 51-59, *jeankia writes:

I met my boyfriend's dad last year. We have been friends and that's the extent of the relationship. Recently his dad said in front of me and him that I have been sleeping with dad. Why would he say this? Now I have major issue with boyfriend. He wants to break up and says he can't believe or trust me. Dad sent me a text saying "Can we sleep together now?" I forwarded copy of text to boyfriend. Help - - Is there anything else I can do to straighten this mess out?

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A female reader, llifton United States +, writes (14 June 2014):

llifton agony auntHe may be experiencing the onset of dementia, as was previously mentioned. It makes people say and do things they normally wouldn't ever say or do.

Your boyfriend should know better than this. Although I have to admit - it would be quite shocking to hear! But there should be other signs other things are going on. I don't know what else you can do to prove this. Like I said, your boyfriend should know that's absurd. But hopefully he will see it for himself soon enough.

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (14 June 2014):

How old is dad? Dementia or Alzheimer's might be a legitimate concern. Or he could just be an a**. As for Boyfriend try talking to him agains. I can understand believing a parent but try explaining your word is stronger than dads for 2 reasons 1. You are telling the truth and 2. He shouldn't believe dad when dad has proved he's a bad parent (sleeping with him sons girlfriend) dad should have lost sons trust with the idea he slept with you. given that son should trust you more. Although I can understand him being creeped out if his dad says this. Seriously though this old man might be suffering from a mental illness.

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A female reader, Caring Aunty A Australia +, writes (13 June 2014):

Caring Aunty A agony auntThis to me is CREEPY… and your boyfriend actually believes his Dad and thinks he can’t trust you!?

What’s there to straighten out? Both of them are INSANE!

WaLoS – CAA

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A male reader, Fatherly Advice United States + , writes (13 June 2014):

Fatherly Advice agony aunt"Is there anything else I can do to straighten this mess out?"

A humiliating kick in the crotch comes to mind. Get them together and read them the riot act, tell them you won't take this kind of treatment. Then give them a weekend and a six pack to work it out.

FA

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A male reader, BrownWolf Canada +, writes (13 June 2014):

BrownWolf agony aunt

Let's put it this way...Let's say both of you ended up getting married someday...He would now be your father-in-law. How would you feel to have your fathe- in-law trying to sleep with you??

So question is...Is this boyfriend really worth it?

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (13 June 2014):

So_Very_Confused agony auntIs the boyfriend's dad suffering dementia or other age related illness?

why in the world would your boyfriend even believe his dad and not you?

are you leaving information out?

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