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writes:Well the thing is me and my bf have been together for 4 years and went to the uk when i finished school now that were back were living with his parents but his dad is cheating on his mom and they never speak to each other so u can imagine the atmosphere in this house, althoug we live in a flat next to the house they constantly bother us with litle things they can sort out themselves and his father you never know what mood his in i dont know how much longer i can keep up with this, we cant really move out becoz we dont have that much money and i cant talk to him bout it i just have to pretend around them im someone im not and its really tiring!! please help
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reader, TELLULAH  +, writes (20 May 2008):
 I totally agree with Aunt Adrey, its not your problem. If they ask for you to become part of it tell them NO. They should be sorting this out themselves, and not envolving you. Its not really fair on you is it?
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reader, Aunt Audrey +, writes (20 May 2008):
 Why do you have to pretend to be something you're not around your boyfriends parents? I would say his father is hardly a role model!
His parents problems are not yours and so don't worry about it, if his parents do not speak to each other what can you do about it? nothing!
Try and stay out of their way and humour them until you can raise enough money to get your own place, I would say the sooner you have your own house to live in the better.
Good luck!
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