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reader, starismine1  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 Does it seem like he has different personalities? I know what that's like. You feel like you are dating 2 different people. And he is nicer when he's drinking/drunk which is a switch, because most guys I've known who drink get worse when they drink. You have to believe you don't deserve to feel like dirt and then you have to believe that you can find someone who will treat you better than this and move on. Being desired by a man for sex means nothing if it makes you feel like you are being used.
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reader, Emilysanswers  +, writes (28 August 2008):
When he's drunk he's talking crap to get into your pants.
Or he's just keeping you hanging on with crumbs of affection. Women who's boyfriends beat them to the point where they are in hospital always say that their man "can be soooooooo lovely sometimes." Any idiot can be lovely when they want to be. Ian Huntly can be lovely and sweet when he wants to be. You wouldn't go out with him.
Any man who acts like that does not deserve to have a girlfriend. Chuck him, and never look back.
Good Luck!! xx
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reader, sexi  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 Hi
You really need to sort this out.NO ONE should ever treat you like dirt and if you feel this way the you should hget out of this relationship. People that love each other treat each other with respect and affection. I have no idea how your bf think you would love him back if you are treated in this way. Get out of this realtionship and find someone that is worthy of you. Someone that will love you back and treat you the way you should be treated.
Have you tried speaking to your bf about the way in which he treats you and your parents?
Regards
Mail me if you wanna chat
Sexi
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (28 August 2008):
 all i can say is that if he swears at your parents then this is bad to the point of dont bother knowing him anymore.
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reader, Boonridge McPhalify +, writes (28 August 2008):
all i can say is that if he swears at your parents then this is bad to the point of dont bother knowing him anymore.
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reader, bubbloo24  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 WOAH
Okay hun, your ideal man.. does he consist of:
-Nasty
-Walks all over you
-Tells your mum to f*ck off
-Nice when DRUNK
-Only happy when he's using me for sex
Get rid sweetheart! You're worth more than that! I'm sorry but he sounds like a twat. You can meet someone so much better.
Never settle for second best of lower, hun.
You are young and will have lots of relationships to come, please do not get stuck in this one.
My friend told me once that the end of a relationship is like a plaster - rip it off and stop the pain quickly or drag it off and feel more lingering pain.
Please end this now before it gets to a sticky end.
Take care xx
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reader, samme +, writes (28 August 2008):
You need to speak to him so he know not to take you for granteed and if he is only nice to you when he is drunk then maybe he is shy to show hes reel feelings. People always say that you speak the truth when your drunk.
But you need to tell him how you feel and if nuffin changes then maybe its best to go on a brake. Then he may realise what hes missing and what he done wronge.
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