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writes: Help! my boyfriend will not go down on me, he says the taste is too horrible, and that it's not just me but other past girlfriends, also. Any suggestions? Reply to this Question |
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reader, mysterywoman  +, writes (7 November 2008):
A lot of women only get pleasure from the clitoris area anyways... the rest is just a bonus. Tell him if he sticks to the area that actually counts (clit) he wont be tasting you. And if he doesnt then say "bye bye baby". I am not fond of giving oral sex and the penis is ugly to begin with, but I do it because I love my husband and I want to please him in every way. Can your man say the same for you?
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 May 2007): Hey my boyfriend was more than happy for me to go down on him but he said it was not something he enjoyed to go down on me, so what did I do, kept pleasing him for months until realising how totally one-sided things had become!, he was getting all and I was getting nothing needless to say we are not together, it takes mutual respect and giving and if he wont then move on, even if you love him, he clearly doesnt take your needs at heart.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 October 2005): I have dated blokes like this and i can tell you one thing that i learned from this. Just like the saying goes, you can lead a horse to water but cant make him drink. so dump the selfish pr*** or quit doing oral favors for him. either way, you wont feel resentful and above all, wont allow him to give you a complex. plenty of guys out there, sweetheart!
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reader, Devil's Advocate +, writes (24 March 2005):
 Maybe you haven't attacked the forest with a bush-whacker recently. Some guys just don't appreciate a face full of minge, it's like french kissing your wizened old uncle or something.Devil's advocate
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reader, Rebecca Batchelor +, writes (24 March 2005):
 He may have a hang-up in relation to doing this.Perhaps you should smear yourself with melted chocolate or honey, he may prefer the taste!Seriously, it all depends on how important this is to both of you. If you really want it to be a part of your sex life, you would have to tell him and suggest that maybe you see a sex therapist together to make sure there isn't a more deeply based reason for his objection. However, it could simply be the case that he just doesn't like it in the way that some women don't enjoy going down on their boy-friends. If that is the case, you may just have to go without it. However, I wonder whether he expects you to do the same for him? This could eventually cause a dispute in that he would be unable to return the favour.You need to talk to him and discuss the importance of this to both of you.Good luck.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2005): Ask him to use his fingers and be gentle. Some guys just don't like going down there and there's probably nothing you can do to change his mind.
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