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female
age
13-15,
Selenne
writes:My boyfriend wants to keep on having sex and I don't want to anymore. How can I tell him I'm really in love with him but I want to stop doing it? Reply to this Question |
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reader, agony aunt j  +, writes (18 March 2007):
 You're so young! If your boyfriend really loves you he'll respect your decision...a relationship should never become based on purely sex, especially at such a young age. you have to just be honest with him and explain that you do love him, but you feel like you're having sex too much. If he loves you as much as you do him, he'll understand and cool it off a bit. sweetie, please dont be forced into anything you dont want to do, and make sure you always use protection!
Hope everything turns out ok! dont hesitate to write back if you need to!
:):)
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female
reader, chrissy32789 +, writes (18 March 2007):
 Dear Selenne,
You are still young to be worrying about sex you have a hole life ahead of you, if you dont want to have sex with this guy then dont there is no reason for you to have to worrie about this if he cant except the fact of you not wanting to have sex then its not worth it, a guy should love you for who you are and not for whats between your legs...well i hope i helped
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reader, BEEN THERE DONE IT +, writes (17 March 2007):
 Darling I saw your age your only young babe, you have so many years a head of you, be honest with him tell him how you feel if he loves you he will understand I promise, however if he insists on having sex still then you have to ask yourself a big question, does he love you the way you love him?,
I wish you all the very best and never do what you don't want to do no matter what......
Let me know how you get on hun xxxxx
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reader, anonymous, writes (17 March 2007): Well, it seems like there must be a problem somewhere if he no longer turns you on. Is there a reason you dont want to have sex anymore? Do you just dont want to deal with birth control? Are your hormones out of wack? Do you really not love him anymore? It sounds like he needs to give you some more emotional support before you can work things out.
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