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writes:at the moment i am 14, and i have the most amazing boyfriend ever, i love him so much, no matter how old i am. But a few days ago he told me that when we are both 16 he wants to lose his v. with me. I found this quite a shock because i didnt even know he was thinking about this sort of thing, he said that when we are 16 he is going to ask me to, i have no clue what to say, will i feel the same as him when i am 16? or will i still just want to wait, should i tell him this now or wait until i am 16? Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): hii...
regardless of how old you are, you should never allow anyone to pressure you into doing something that you don't feel ready to do. i can't say how you will feel about the situation once you turn 16, but i think that that is definitely something that you are going to need to address veryy carefully. if you really and truly feel like you're ready, it looks like all lights are green. but if you feel even the slighest little hesitation about it, i don't think that you should go through with it. buuut, as it has been said before, "2 years is a long while away." soo, for right now, just focus on having funn with your boyfriend and enjoying your adolescence.
good luck, and God bless!!!
~sarsar~
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reader, anonymous, writes (26 October 2010): Awwww, i feel bad for you, you obviously like your boyfriend a lot but have never thought about him like that before. Think about what is best for you and don't get pressured into anything you don't want to do. Who knows, you are only 14, for you 2 years is a long while away, just see how your relationship is then
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