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reader, anonymous, writes (14 November 2018): Well I did give him reason not to as at the beginning of the relationship I was on the dating site still as I wasn't sure we were exclusive anyway he found me on there and hasn't trusted me since and keeps making up profiles checking. What should I do
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reader, N91  +, writes (13 November 2018):
 I’m sorry but you sound pretty naive if you’re buying that excuse.
If he doesn’t trust you when you haven’t given him a reason not to then it’s not looking too good for the future.
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reader, anonymous, writes (12 November 2018): Well I don't believe he's cheating on me as he's deleted it now I just think he's testing my loyalty by seeing if I'm on there as he's very insecure. How can I get his trust in me
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reader, N91 +, writes (11 November 2018):
Why would you want to fix things with someone who’s trying to find your replacement? What planet are you living on?
HE doesn’t trust you?? How certain are you that these profiles are his without a picture? If you know it’s him yet you’re sticking around then you’re going to end up in a world of heartache.
Get rid, find someone who respects you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2018): I love my boyfriend so much but it seems he doesn't trust me at all and checks up on me and now I don't trust him seeing him on websites. This is a never ending circle problem that never goes away I really want to fix things but I don't know how
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2018): Well since I've confronted him and he denied it and accused me of being on there and now I've noticed he's put up another profile on a different website and the location of the other one has changed as if he turned off location
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 November 2018): You should dump him for starts. He's shopping for your replacement. Hang-on to a shred of dignity; and ditch the guy before he introduces you to his new girlfriend!
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reader, anonymous, writes (9 November 2018): I have asked him and he's saying its not him so I don't know what to do. He's now annoyed with me for accusing him. I don't have a profile on there I just did a search from homepage as a non member.
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reader, anonymous, writes (7 November 2018): Ask him why, but I think you already know the answer. He's looking to see if there is something "better" out there. He's just not that into you. If he is looking to see if you're on dating apps, and I doubt that's the reason, is there a reason he thinks you're on a dating apps?
Have a conversation with him and hopefully you'll get honest answers. You're old enough to be able to sort the bull from the truth.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (7 November 2018):
 You aren't "the one" for him, he is still LOOKING. He will date you until he finds "better" (not necessarily better but what HE thinks is better for him).
In order for YOU to see him online on the dating app, you must be online the app too,right? So maybe he is checking up on you as you are checking up on him.
ASK him WTF is going on. Act accordingly.
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