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writes:I'm 18. I've sex with my bf. But he said my vaginal is wide, he feels its empty when he puts it in. I dont know why my vaginal is wide. He's normal, not too big and not too small. I never have kid or abortion. I dont know why. Who can explain it to me ? And how can I fix it?
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reader, happy140 +, writes (7 August 2011):
 You do NOT need to have kids to have a larger opening. If you masturbate with the largest dildo on the planet the opening will adjust and become wider. Think about it if you stretch something long enough it loses its elasticity. I’m by NO MEANS saying your to large. After my wife had our two children vaginally both times things were a little “loose” for a month or so. My god look what came out, it’s no wonder things were a little looser. I am not going to bash him and blame it on his penis as other had because you would have mentioned his size if it was an issue. I do think he needs a rougher form of stimulation though and that is why you feel “loose” to him. He should be able to tell you that about your vagina but in a loving manner. The way he stated it is offensive and I understand how you took it. There are exercises you can do. Your 18 and I bet you still have a tight one so does not let his need for harder stimulation bring you down. Tell him if it is too loose you are sorry but it’s your one and only pussy and he better learn to cherish it!
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 August 2011): Your boyfriend is full of s@#t! He probably feels that he is too small and needs an excuse to make you feel bad instead of himself.
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reader, RedAthena +, writes (6 August 2011):
 Even with childbirth, vaginas do not aways "widen" or loosen permenantly.
Vaginas are like fingerprints. They are different for everybody, just like no two penises are alike!
You can not change his attitude, but you can change positions to increase pressure/tightness (legs over his shoulders/thighs together is a good option) and even slipping a ring on him!
YOU are fine dear. He might be small in the shaft or the brain!
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reader, YouWish +, writes (6 August 2011):
 He could be too used to his hand. :P
Don't worry about it. Vaginas come in all shapes and sizes same as penises. Heh...I like chigirl's response to this one.
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reader, olderthandirt  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 What in the world are you worried about? wide is good! He's probably below average in size and looking for an excuse to why he's not able to drive you crazy during Orgasm
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 Next time he says it you ask him "maybe it's your penis that is too small?"
That ought to fix the problem.
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (6 August 2011):
 Not all women have the same size vaginas, yours is just naturally wider. Do pelvic floor exercises to tone yourself up to make sex better.
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