A
female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:Hello,I'm slightly overweight, my boyfriend says he doesnt mind my extra weight and loves me no matter what.But, he has no problem picking on other chubbier women, like a friend of mines girlfriend is about the same size as me, but shorter, and hes always calling her fat (not to me, he tells my friend shes fat and jokes about it)It really bothers me that he says one thing to me, but behind my back picks on other girls for being bigger.How can i talk to him and tell him this bothers me without him turning it around and saying physical doesnt matter and all that? I know he jokes about other peoples weight, and it makes me wonder if he jokes about me ever...thanks.
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 April 2008): wouldnt it be worse if it was the other way round? if he was criticising u & other people? you are ok!
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