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My boyfriend likes me to do the same things as porn stars but I don't want to

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Question - (4 December 2018) 5 Answers - (Newest, 7 December 2018)
A female United States age 26-29, anonymous writes:

My boyfriend wanted to try something new and now wants it all the time. He likes when I kneel in front of him with my mouth open and tongue sticking out, then he cums on my face and in my mouth and tells me to swallow as much as I can like they do on porn. A few times was ok, but now wants it all the time. He has even said he would like to take a picture of me with his cum all over my face. I feel this is too much, but feel compelled to do this as I'm not working now and he is paying all the bills. I feel like I'm in a rough spot.

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A female reader, Andie's Thoughts United Kingdom +, writes (7 December 2018):

Andie's Thoughts agony auntFind a job (any job) or move out. Your current job is prostitute to your boyfriend. Do NOT do ANYTHING you don’t want to. What he likes in porn is degrading to anyone who doesn’t like it. He is degrading you and you feel you need to do it. Tell him “no”. If you can’t tell him “no”, it’s not a good relationship.

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A reader, anonymous, writes (7 December 2018):

So now you have to prostitute yourself; and do things you don't want to do, because you're not working. Go back and read your post, and then think of what you're saying.

DO NOT exchange sexual-favors or force yourself to compromise your dignity and values to please a boyfriend. You start taking things to a lower-level; and they will go even lower. Guys with porn on the brain lose respect for women, and use you like objects.

You've done enough, and now you feel you have to do things because he pays the bills.

Go back home to your parents; before you decide to get reckless and weak-minded to please a guy!

Seriously?!!

You will regret it if you start filming things on video. Relationships sometimes end abruptly. Things that go out on the internet can end-up anywhere, and be seen by anybody.

Guys can get spiteful, and use sex videos to blackmail or humiliate you! Please don't say something sappy like "he wouldn't do that!" Well, if he did; shame on you! You're so young you'd be that naive. Don't tempt probability!!!

At your age, what you are planning to do would be nothing short of stupid. I will use that word, because IT IS "stupid!"

Don't lower yourself to let guys do as they please with you; because you need to find a job. What's next, will you become a sex-worker, because he asked you to?

You're feeling a little obligated, and over-appreciative that he is helping you. Maybe you feel a little guilty depending on him financially. Just don't do something you will definitely regret. I see this going so very wrong!

Maybe you should go home until you get back on your feet.

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A male reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2018):

Never take pictures like that ever! They could come out years from

Now and haunt you.

If you don’t like something tell him. If he truly cares he would never want you doing something you weren’t 100% comfortable with

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (6 December 2018):

No pictures ever it will come back to haunt you...this i promise.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (6 December 2018):

Honeypie agony auntAh, no OP

YOU do not OWE him pictures of that nature or... ACTS you don't want to do.

I think you need to get out there and find yourself a job ASAP so you can stop feeling you owe him anything.

You are so young to be "trapped" in this kind of shit.

OP, you ARE NOT a porn star nor do you have to ACT like one. EVER. If you don't want to.

RESPECT yourself, otherwise others won't.

Tell him no.

If he tells you that you "owe" him, then it's time to call up your parents and move on home if possible.

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