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My boyfriend lied about his ongoing involvment with his ex.

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Question - (9 August 2017) 7 Answers - (Newest, 10 August 2017)
A female United Kingdom age 36-40, anonymous writes:

Hi,

When i met my partner he was still having his ex round his house watching films, going out, and going on holiday, all of this he lied about.

We split up a year later and he was trying to find a house near his ex and he contacted her straight a away. I took him back then we split up again because of trust issues and again he went back to his ex he kept it a secret/lied for 9 months about it, until she sent me photos of him there.

He said he did it for me because his ex was meddling in the relationship from day one, but she knew things about my family that nobody knew apart from him.

Advice please??

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A female reader, Jessie Star China +, writes (10 August 2017):

Jessie Star agony auntHi Anonymous,

Do you mind defining the relationship between him and his ex? Do they have children together? Are they part of the same social organization? Are they intimate or is it platonic?

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A male reader, Billy Bathgate United States + , writes (9 August 2017):

Stop seeing him.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (9 August 2017):

So...what's the problem? What are you trying to hold onto him for?

File this under "unnecessary drama" and move on.

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A male reader, N91 United Kingdom + , writes (9 August 2017):

N91 agony auntDoes this really need advice?

Surely you can see that he is most definitely cheating on you. Block, delete, move on. Simple.

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (9 August 2017):

Honeypie agony auntSounds like you dodged a bullet and that you OUGHT to cut him out of your life 100%.

Block his number, stop talking to him. Like Auntie BimBim said, if he shows up, don't let him in or talk to him.

He is obviously NOT over his ex and NOT ready to date someone else.

As for the excuse that he did it for you? Wait, what? That sounds like the dumbest excuse I have ever heard.

Move on, OP there is nothing for you here other than a toxic relationship.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia + , writes (9 August 2017):

Aunty BimBim agony auntWhat a load of old codswollop!

If you continue to try and have a relationship with this man his ex is also going to be part of it. He has proven himself to be a liar and untrustworthy. Is that really what you want?

My advise is to cut him loose, block his number, don't let him in your house, ignore all attempts to contact you.

He is no worthy of another 5 minutes of you time or thoughts.

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A female reader, Aunty BimBim Australia + , writes (9 August 2017):

Aunty BimBim agony auntWhat a load of old codswollop!

If you continue to try and have a relationship with this man his ex is also going to be part of it. He has proven himself to be a liar and untrustworthy. Is that really what you want?

My advise is to cut him loose, block his number, don't let him in your house, ignore all attempts to contact you.

He is no worthy of another 5 minutes of you time or thoughts,

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