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female
age
18-21,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend doesn't share anything with me, hes keeping everything bottled up, and when i talk to him and try and let him know he can tell me anything, he just pushes me away.What should i do? should i leave him alone and hope for the best? Reply to this Question |
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reader, Laura1318  +, writes (11 June 2008):
 Give him back his own medicine or you can keep on digging and digging and pester till he opens up.
If you keep knocking at the door, he will have to open soon otherwise he will have no peace.
If he does not want to open up, then leave him.
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reader, PeterPan  + ♥, writes (11 June 2008):
 What do you mean "bottled up"? -- his sorrows? ...his triumphs? Or are you saying that he doesn't share the (so called) important things going on in his life? In my mind, there would be a difference there. How long have you been together? That's also a related issue...
If you can answer these questions, I think that would help us give you a better answer.
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reader, Short timer +, writes (11 June 2008):
 be open with him first and tell him why he wont open up to you and that it is making it hard on your realationship. If he still doesnt tell you then its your choice to leave him or not.
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reader, anonymous, writes (10 June 2008): I know you are probably feeling hurt and frustrated, but I suggest you give him time and space.
Get the book Men are from Mars and Women are from Venus, read it while you are waiting for him to come out of "hibernation".
It will give you a lot of insight and might help you understand!
Good luck!
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