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writes:My new boyfriend is so damn quiet in bed that I dont even know when he orgasms. This is becoming quite embaressing because I keep going and I dont realise that he has already come. There is no noise, no movement, no facial expression, no nothing. Yet I know he does come because it comes back out of me after we finish. I know he enjoys it because hes so passionate in bed with kissing and touching and stuff, but hes just so quiet. Is this normal? I dont like it!
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reader, angelDlite +, writes (21 August 2011):
 if you are intimate enough to have sex with him then i hope you are intimate enough to be able to talk about it? tell him how you feel about this in a tactful and nice way obviously. but this is how he naturally is, and its better to be natural than for him to fake noises. maybe he is just the wrong partner for you?
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reader, Mummy86 +, writes (20 August 2011):
 it might be because the relationship is still new and hes holding back a bit or feels a little nervous
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reader, fishdish  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 I think you could ask him if he's getting close or tell him you think it's sexy to know when he's coming, maybe he thinks that's improper to talk about but it's not like you're telling him to talk dirty, you just want to know how his experience is going, otherwise what's the point of sex being an intimate thing between TWO people..
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reader, The Realist  +, writes (20 August 2011):
 Some people are naturally quite in bed. It is something he could work on for you but I doubt he will ever be very loud.
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reader, Vanessa_Twinkle +, writes (20 August 2011):
Maybe thats just him, try ask him if you can make it any better, and that him not making noise is bothering you, i´m sure he´ll understand and give you an explanation.
But i´m pretty sure thats normal.
Good luck :)
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