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writes:Hi guys. My current boyfriend keeps telling me he loves me, hes always texting asking if he can come round and see me and he waits on me hand and foot when he does. sounds like a perfect partner right? Wrong! the thing is hes SO clingy, i cant even go out and enjoy myself without him texting or phoning me.I must admit i dont love him and cant be bothered with him, we dont have a sexual relationship but i have a high sex drive. we broke up once before because i had sexual relations with someone else but he told me he loved me and we would work through it so he took me back (not that i asked him to) but ive gone and done the same thing again and boy what a buzz i get out of it! i may sound like a slut but he is way to boring for me. I cant seem to break it off again and i dont know why! please help xP.s im also doing a college course and his mother and aunt are in my class.
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reader, Danielepew  + ♥, writes (18 June 2007):
 I agree with the rest of the people in that you need to let this man go.
Now, as to his being so clingy, has it crossed your mind that he may feel unsure about you, and he may be trying to "win you" by giving you everything he can think of? Poor guy.
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reader, anonymous, writes (18 June 2007): Hi hun,
You have to break it off NOW! he may be upset for awhile but you cant carry on like this im being honest with you.... You must not reply to his texts and let him get over you in his own time, dont play him anymore love if the boot were on the other foot and it was someone doing this to you hunny it would be nasty. Do the right thing sweety and let him get on with his life as you say you dont love him and have cheated twice now thats not something to get a buzz out of, let him go and in time he may find someone who will love him
TAKE CARE LOVE XXXXX
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reader, kenny + ♥, writes (18 June 2007):
 You have got to be brutally honest with this guy and tell him you don't love him anymore, if you don't you are leading him on. Tell him sooner rather than later, the longer you leave it the harder it will get, and the more hurt he will be.
Sometimes in this life we have to be cruel to be kind, sure he will be upset but in time he will come to respect you were honest with him and diden't lead him on.
Once you have told him it will be a massive weight off your shoulders and you can move on with your life.
Good luck x
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reader, Mrinlove  +, writes (18 June 2007):
you just have to tell him how you feel. he needs to understand that it is a doomed relationship and it's going to hurt him no matter what. don't continue this relationship though because u wouldn't want a guy to do the same to you
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